Before I go any further with this post, I would like to clear the fact that I myself do watch porn at times. I don’t find anything wrong with that as long as it doesn’t become an addiction and doesn’t create a barrier between relations. However, anything in excess becomes an addiction and addiction leads to nothing but disaster. It’s like eating sugar, it tastes sweet at first but after a while it turns sour. Same thing with any kind of addiction and I have seen porn addiction take men down the drain, including my own cousin.

This article will point out 3 things that I find makes men more susceptible to porn addiction. Let’s analyze,

The Imaginative Pleasure

This is one of the main reason men tend to watch porns because they are visual animals. They like what they see. Whatever tickles their fancy sexually, arouses them the most. For example , any men would like to see their partner in some sensual clothing simply because they are turned on by what they see. One of main culprit for porn addiction is a man’s desire to use those imaginative sense. They like to think outside the box and ponder and play with in their head what might be inside. Their is an organ in each man’s brain which is yet to be scientifically proven. I like to call it the “Sex O’ Load” just because that part of the brain is loaded with sexual thoughts.

A man can look at a woman, undress her and start having sex within 5 minutes with her all in his brains. Sexual imagination in a man is one of the reason why men tend to be more into porn than woman.

The “You Want Me Factor” Comes In Play

Another crucial aspect that plays a significant role is the “you want me factor.” Men like to be bosses and they want to know and hear that they are wanted. One of the reasons I think men want this is because they want to be seen as somebody who is in demand and as they say - somebody whose shit don’t stink. While watching porn a man feels in control. It’s his time, his way of exercising his brains where most of the times “getting laid” thoughts rein.

Watching porn may be a way for men to relief stress as it allows them to be in control and take care of the situation which usually is through simulating the sexual nerves in the brains.

Can’t Touch But Can Definitely See

Another thing that I hear day after day is this statement from men who are married or are in a relationship - I can’t touch but I can see. This attitude I think takes the sex addiction game to the next level. Being in a relationship a man realizes what his grounds and boundaries are but the fact that he can still have sex ( in their minds since they have such high imaginative skills ) mentally allows him to have sex with any person at any given time anywhere. And what better way to exercise this theory than to watch porn.

Men have a tendency to fight something right with the wrong itself. The porn addiction stems out from this kind of attitude. A small fire can escalate into a wildfire and the same goes true with men’s thought process when it comes to sex.

Men like visual attraction. Whatever catches their attention rules their world. Share your thoughts! Once again nothing wrong with watching porn unless it becomes an addiction. Think men, think before it becomes a routine. Make it a once in a while pleasure not a daily chore!

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